Hi, I’m hayley.
I’m an ICF credentialed Holistic Connection Coach, helping women connect to who they are, find the confidence to explore their wants and needs, and leave behind the heaviness of their guilt and shame.
I truly believe that every aspect of your life is connected, and the only real way of finding the fulfillment you crave is to start choosing yourself and getting really clear on what you want and need in your life. I’m here to help you figure out where you are in your journey, ask the tough questions, and help you begin to fill your cup.
Born in Northern Arizona and now based in Las Vegas, Nevada, I wasn’t always the most confident person. The family addiction, narcissism, lack of boundaries, and codependency I experienced made me into a woman who felt like her wants and needs were secondary to every other person in her life. I was the ultimate wife, mom, friend, and employee, at the expense of knowing who I truly was. It wasn’t until someone asked me in 2019, “What do you currently do for yourself that makes you feel joy? Separate from your husband and kids… what do you do for YOURSELF?” And I couldn’t think of a single thing, NOT ONE! The fear that I felt in that moment, the space within me that was created, was something I’ll never forget. On my journey of healing, building boundaries, exploring who I am, what I like, and what I need from others, I began my official training to become a certified life coach.
A COACH TO HELP WOMEN HEAL AND REALIZE THE STRENGTH AND POTENTIAL THEY HAVE WITHIN THEMSELVES. TO BE AWARE OF THE POWER THEY HAVE TO MAKE ANYTHING THEY WANT A REALITY AND CONNECT THEM TO A LIFE OF CONFIDENCE AND EMPOWERMENT. BY CHOOSING YOURSELF, AND FILLING YOUR OWN CUP, YOUR ABILITY TO BE THERE FOR OTHERS IN A MEANINGFUL AND FULFILLING WAY INCREASES TENFOLD.I get that it’s difficult to ask those big questions of yourself. It seems backward that putting yourself first creates better connections with those around you, but the fact that you’re here means you could be ready to choose you. I know the fear that happens when you step out of that comfort zone. Being uncomfortable is the biggest sign of change. But, that’s why I’m here. I’ll create that space you need to heal, find confidence, and feel supported in the life and relationships you want to cultivate. It’s time to choose you and release the guilt that comes with it.
My Approach
It’s all about you. You have every single thing you could ever need to live fully within the life you want for yourself and the people you love. There might have been things that have disconnected you from yourself, caused you to be on autopilot, or lived in a constant state of stress. I’m here as a holistic coach to ask you the questions to break you wide open. To hold space for who you really are, and explore who that looks like. To create room where you feel supported to explore your wants and needs and figure out what needs to be released and healed, and what needs to be held and cared for.
People who have felt alone, abandoned, worthless, who feel like they carry everyone else’s burdens and no one is able to carry theirs, even themselves. People who have experienced loss, abuse, discrimination, and neglect, I see you. I see all of you, and I’m holding space for you. You are stronger than you could ever know, and I can help you see it.